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2024-01-09 10:49 am

Kærlighed for kontrolfreaks - Pia Konstantin Berg

Title: Kærlighed for kontrolfreaks
Author: Pia Konstantin Berg
Genre: Chick-lit
Rating: 3.5/5
# pages: Audiobook, 10hrs
Date read: January, 2024

Anna har altid haft styr på alting. Med topkarakter i studenterhuen er hun strøget gennem sin CBS-uddannelse med kurs mod drømmejobbet på et prestigefyldt PR-bureau. Men da stillingen går til en anden, står hun for første gang uden en plan og med en stigende følelse af panik. Imens er Annas fraværende far tilbage i Danmark for at overtage det sønderjyske familiegods, og han er opsat på at ansætte hende. Selvom tanken ikke huer storbypigen Anna, er opgaven med at lægge godsets nye brandingstrategi vel bedre end ingenting?

På godset møder Anna chefkokken Thomas, som har fødderne solidt plantet i den jyske muld. Da de skal samarbejde, står konflikterne i kø, for hvorfor skal hun ændre ved et image, der har fungeret fint i mange år? Og hvorfor har han så svært ved at forstå, at ikke alle gæster drømmer om brun sovs året rundt? Men måske kan de også lære noget af hinanden? Hvis de altså ikke river hovederne af hinanden først …


I was introduced to Pia Konstantin Berg last year, and the first book I read by her ("Kys din kæreste på rejsen") was a clear 5-star read, so I think this book probably suffers quite a bit in comparison. It's very likely that if I had read this first, I would have rated it higher.

I liked the general concept of the book. Reading about the ins and outs of managing a hotel/restaurant is almost always fascinating - even if I have no clue how close to real life it is. It was quite interesting to read this such a short time after reading "The Northern Lights Lodge" by Julie Caplin though, because there were a LOT of similarities between the two. But in a good way.

I wasn't quite as taken with the characters though, and their constant lack of communication / jumping to conclusions really frustrated me. I don't remember that being as bad in KDKPR.
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2023-09-15 12:02 pm

Kys din kæreste på rejsen - Pia Konstantin Berg

Title: Kys din kæreste på rejsen
Author: Pia Konstantin Berg
Genre: Chick-lit
Rating: 4.5/5
# pages: Audiobook ~5hrs
Date read: September, 2023

29-year-old Caroline's life is running smoothly. She's just bought an apartment and gotten her dream job as a music reviewer -- not to mention that she's dating her boss, Kaare. Everything is perfect... if you put aside the fact that Caroline hates writing ruthless reviews, that Kaare - by the way - is married, and that a deadly pandemic has closed down the country...

From one day to the next everything is cancelled. Friends are in isolation with their families, Kaare is with his family, and Caroline is furloghed. Her social life consists of daily phone calls with her overbearing parents, sporadic texts from her friends and random balcony-meetings with her neighbour John - a 94-year-old globetrotter with a fondness for alcohol and techno music.

Spring looks bleak, until Caroline literally runs into Casper one day and he turns her life upside down. His optimism is contagious, and even though he's not at all the kind of man she thought she was looking for... perhaps he's exactly the kind of man she needs?


Set in the time of the first Copenhagen corona lock-down it really captures the feeling of "this is nothing... huh, a press conference... crap! It's definitely NOT nothing!"

Not that this is primarily a story about corona though. It's a story about a new romance... about getting yourself out of an increasingly toxic relationship... about overbearing parents... about unusual friendships in the most random places.

It made me laugh out loud more times than I can count (I LOVED Caroline's and Casper's initial messages to each other), and was sweetly poignant in places too. Everybody ought to have a 94-year-old friend when times get tough. I want to be John when I get old!

The third-act breakup was unnecessary and made me subtract half a star... but it was realistic and also realistically resolved, so I've rounded up rather than down here on Goodreads. There was a lot to love in this book, and I'd like to add it to my library at some point.
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2023-01-01 01:12 pm

Class - Jane Beaton

Title: Class: Welcome to the Little School by the Sea (Maggie Adair #1)
Author: Jenny Colgan as Jane Beaton
Genre: Chick-lit
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 336
Date read: December, 2022

It's about love lives . . .
Maggie has been dating Stan for years - safe, comfortable and about as exciting as soggy toast. Can their relationship survive? Especially when Maggie meets David McDonald, her opposite number at the boys' boarding school over the hill. Every single girl in the school has a crush on him, but not Maggie . . . yet.

It's about school lives . . .
Two girls. Same form. Simone Kardashian has won a scholarship and is determined to make her parents proud. Fliss Prosser is furious at being so far from home and her friends. As Simone tries desperately to fit in, Fliss tries desperately to get out.

It's about private lives . . .
Veronica Deveral knows how to manage a school. Routine and discipline are fundamental to her role. But Veronica has a secret that could ruin her career . . .


This was sold to me as "Malory Towers, but for grown-ups", and while I can definitely see the similarities, unfortunately, it just didn't have the same charm, so I haven't quite decided if I want to continue on with the series or not.

I think my main problem was that though the book introduced several different points of view along the way, at the end of the day it was one of the teachers who came across as the main character - and apparently teaching at a boarding school isn't as much fun to read about, as actually attending one? That's my theory anyway. Especially since Maggie seriously let down some of her students, which got frustrating to read about.

At the end of the day, I think Fliss was my favourite. She started out as a brat, but was certainly the one who improved the most along the course of the book.
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2021-05-25 10:09 am

God, Where Are You? - John Bevere

Title: God, Where Are You?
Author:
John Bevere
Genre: Christian non-fiction
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 159
Date read: May, 2021

Do you feel lost in a difficult season, wondering, “GOD, WHERE ARE YOU?!”

Perhaps you heard God speak, but now He seems silent. Maybe you moved forward in faith, but now His presence is nowhere to be found. Welcome to the wilderness—the place between receiving a promise from God and seeing it come to pass.

But here’s the good news—this is no purposeless wasteland. God uses the wilderness to prepare and equip you for your destiny—that is, if you navigate it correctly. Contrary to what many may think, getting through this season isn’t just a matter of waiting on God. You have a part to play in navigating through it. A big one. And if you don’t want to waste time wandering in circles, it’s important to learn what that is.


I bought this because I really enjoyed the YouVersion Bibel reading plan based on it. Unfortunately, the reading plan had all the best points, and I didn't really feel like it improved any from having those points elaborated on.

It was good - but never became personal. I never really connected to the teachings, which means that it'll unfortunately likely turn out to be very forgettable.
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2020-11-03 08:19 am

The Crooked Sixpence - Jennifer Bell

Title: The Crooked Sixpence
Author: Jennifer Bell
Genre: Childrens, fantasy
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 384
Date read: October, 2020

When Ivy Sparrow’s grandmother Sylvie is rushed to hospital, Ivy and her annoying big brother Seb cannot imagine what lies in store for them. Returning to Sylvie’s house, they find it has been ransacked by unknown intruders – then a mysterious feather scratches an ominous message onto the kitchen wall, and a very strange policeman is determined to apprehend them . . . with a toilet brush. Ivy and Seb make their escape – only to find themselves in a completely uncommon world.

The forces of evil are closing in fast, and if Ivy and Seb are ever to see their parents again, they must get to the bottom of a family secret as shameful as it is incredible... before it’s too late.


After a false start or two, I finally got properly into this book at the most recent readathon, where it fit the bill perfectly. In genre and feel it reminded me a bit of "Un Lun Dun" by China Miéville (although not in plot at all). I liked it well enough, but found certain parts of it slightly too disjointed. Some things seemed to happen for the sake of plot, rather than because it made sense in the universe. I might feel differently on rereading it, as I now know the universe.
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2020-06-30 03:17 pm

The Gem Thief - Sian Ann Bessey


Title: The Gem Thief
Author: Sian Ann Bessey
Genre: Chick-lit
Rating: 4/5
# pages: Audiobook ~11hrs
Date read: June, 2020

Gracie Miller is a small-town girl who has landed her dream job in New York City. As jewelry designer for one of the most prestigious jewelers in the world, she completed a particularly stunning piece, a custom setting for a large diamond. But when her billionaire client Mrs. Katsaros comes to have a minor issue with the setting repaired, Gracie is horrified to realize it is not the ring she created. Someone has forged her design, and the priceless diamond is gone.

Mrs. Katsaros has no desire to bring media attention to the jewelry heist, so she recruits her nephew, Quinn, and his FBI agent friend, Steve, to do some sleuthing off the record. When they discover that the missing ring is just one of many forgeries in the widow’s collection, they look to Gracie for help. They need her to act the part of Quinn’s fiancée. From the lights of New York to the shimmering islands of the Mediterranean, Gracie is swept into a thrilling hunt. But amid the search for the elusive thief, she and Quinn find themselves increasingly distracted by their growing feelings for each other. What neither realizes is how close the danger lies and how serious the vendetta is—because, apparently, it is worth killing for.


On one hand nothing special - on the other hand totally charming, and I loved every minute of it!

I'd been recommended this book because I like stories that take place on cruises, and while the cruise didn't take up quite as much page time as I would have liked, it still added to the charm of the story. The plot is quite unrealistic, but pretty common for chick-lit, and stayed true to its own universe, so it still worked for me. I really liked both Gracie and Quinn, and Dorcas was absolutely delightful :-D

Not high literature, but just what I was in the mood for, on a lazy Saturday.
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2020-05-11 01:29 pm

A Simple Favour - Darcey Bell

Title: A Simple Favour
Author: Darcey Bell
Genre: Suspense
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 371
Date read: May 2020

She’s your best friend.
She knows all your secrets.
That’s why she’s so dangerous.

It starts with a simple favor—an ordinary kindness mothers do for one another. When her best friend, Emily, asks Stephanie to pick up her son Nicky after school, she happily says yes. Nicky and her son, Miles, are classmates and best friends, and the five-year-olds love being together—just like she and Emily. A widow and stay-at-home mommy blogger living in woodsy suburban Connecticut, Stephanie was lonely until she met Emily, a sophisticated PR executive whose job in Manhattan demands so much of her time.

But Emily doesn’t come back. She doesn’t answer calls or return texts. Stephanie knows something is terribly wrong—Emily would never leave Nicky, no matter what the police say. Terrified, she reaches out to her blog readers for help. She also reaches out to Emily’s husband, the handsome, reticent Sean, offering emotional support. It’s the least she can do for her best friend. Then, she and Sean receive shocking news. Emily is dead. The nightmare of her disappearance is over.

Or is it? Because soon, Stephanie will begin to see that nothing—not friendship, love, or even an ordinary favor—is as simple as it seems.


I saw the movie of the same name not knowing it was based on a book, so when I read that in the credits, I knew I had to read the book as well.

It was ridiculously readable, as I knew it would be, and the main complaints I saw in other reviews didn't really bother me, as they were all things that occurred in the movie as well, so I knew they'd be there. But at the end of the day - I enjoyed the movie more. The book didn't have the charm that Anna Kendrick brought to the movie, and they had changed the ending quite a bit for the movie... and for once, I actually preferred that ending to the original (possibly because I encountered that one first? Very possible).

All in all - while I might watch the movie again, I doubt I'll read the book again.
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2018-04-20 09:12 am

Shadow Unit 3: Refining Fire - Emma Bull, Elizabeth Bear

Title: Shadow Unit 3: Refining Fire
Author: Emma Bull, Elizabeth Bear
Genre: Suspense, Paranormal
Rating: 4/5
# pages: 251
Date read: April, 2018

Chaz Villette, team member, goes to check out the home he recently inherited from his mother's parents, who he has never met. The house is in danger from wild fires, so it may be his only chance to get a feel for what his dead mother's early life was like.

The only problem is, the house isn't empty, and he ends up in the crazed hands of a gamma, William Villette. His mother's brother, and a crazed rapist who can make people feel the emotions he wants them to.


Definitely the most vicious and graphic of the lot. I read the online version (found at http://shadowunit.org) which meant I had to go hunting for the bonus material. It's worth it though, as the "episode" itself ends rather abruptly and without giving the reader a chance to decompress.

Of course, if you're reading the Kindle version, then you won't have this problem ;-)

Once again the similarities to "Criminal Minds" are striking, but as I love that show, that's actually a count in Shadow Unit's favour, and though this particular episode was long and brutal, I found most of it fascinating and had a very hard time putting down the book. The ending got a bit confusing, and I was glad to discover extra bonus material online, as I was somewhat disappointed by where it ended (we got so invested in Chaz that I wanted to read about his recovery as well!), but all in all it was a very satisfying "season finale", and I could definitely see myself continuing on to the next season sooner rather than later.
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2017-08-16 11:47 am

Good or God - John Bevere

Title: Good or God
Author: John Bevere
Genre: Christian non-fiction
Rating: 4/5
# pages: 288
Date read: August, 2017

These days the terms good and God seem synonymous. We believe what's generally accepted as good must be in line with God's will. Generosity, humility, justice - good. Selfishness, arrogance, cruelty - evil. The distinction seems pretty straightforward. But is that all there is to it? If good is so obvious, why does the Bible say that we need discernment to recognize it? Good or God? isn't another self-help message. This book will do more than ask you to change your behavior. It will empower you to engage with God on a level that will change every aspect of your life.


Extremely thought-provoking book, that I'm glad to have read. John Bevere dives into why good without God just isn't sufficient, and how to gain discernment to know the difference.

I didn't agree with all his points, but enough that I learned a lot, and he put forth some ideas I'd never thought of before, which really made me sit back and think.

But a word of warning to other readers - he does talk a LOT about not being saved by faith alone, but that deeds are also necessary. I'm pretty sure he isn't saying that we have to do good deeds to be saved, but rather echoing James that a faith without deeds is dead, but his wording does toe the line occasionally. It didn't bother me, as I feel secure enough in my faith to disagree with him, but it does stop me from being able to recommend this book without reservations.

Spoiler? Quotes at least )
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2017-03-28 12:26 pm

The Bookshop on Rosemary Lane - Ellen Berry

Title: The Bookshop on Rosemary Lane
Author: Ellen Berry
Genre: Chick-lit
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 370
Date read: March, 2017

In the beginning...

Kitty Cartwright has always solved her problems in the kitchen. Her cookbooks are her life, and there isn't an issue that "Cooking with Aspic" can't fix. Her only wish is that she had a book entitled "Rustling Up Dinner When Your Husband Has Left You".

Forty years later...

On Rosemary Lane, Della Cartwright plans to open a very special little bookshop. Not knowing what to do with the hundreds of cookbooks her mother left her, she now wants to share their recipes with the world - and no amount of aspic will stand in her way.

But with her family convinced it's a hare-brained scheme, Della starts to wonder if she's made a terrible decision. One thing's for sure: she's about to find out...


Unfortunately not the feel-good chick-lit I had hoped for, and I almost put it down at 57% because it took such an unpleasant turn. Fortunately it improved, and I enjoyed the last 40%, but I did think that the build-up was FAR too slow compared to the actual plot and resolution.

I'm surprised by all the high ratings I see on Goodreads. This only just made it up to 3 stars for me.
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2015-09-14 12:42 pm

The Thing About Jellyfish - Ali Benjamin

Title: The Thing About Jellyfish
Author: Ali Benjamin
Genre: Childrens/YA
Rating: 3.5/5
# pages: 352
Date read: September, 2015

After her best friend dies in a drowning accident, Suzy is convinced that the true cause of the tragedy was a rare jellyfish sting. Retreating into a silent world of imagination, she crafts a plan to prove her theory--even if it means traveling the globe, alone. Suzy's achingly heartfelt journey explores life, death, the astonishing wonder of the universe...and the potential for love and hope right next door.


A quick read - I finished it in a day.

"The Thing About Jellyfish" is a sweet childrens/YA story that tackles a difficult subject - how do you cope with grief? Especially if your feelings about the deceased are conflicted.

I liked the way the story was interspersed with facts about jellyfish as well as flashbacks to Suzy's childhood and friendship with Franny. It worked well and gave us the background without resorting to telling rather than showing. I did think there were some things left unanswered or unexplored which pulled the end rating down to 3.5 stars, but as a whole, I enjoyed the book.

And it had was is possibly the best description of what ADHD is like - both with and without medication - that I've ever read. That was both very powerful and very poignant for a non-ADHD sufferer to read and gave me an understanding of it, that I hadn't had earlier.
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2014-04-23 10:52 am

MWF Seeking BFF - Rachel Bertsche

Title: MWF Seeking BFF
Author: Rachel Bertsche
Genre: Memoir, Non-fiction
Rating: 4.5/5
# pages: 349
Date read: April 2014

When Rachel Bertsche first moves to Chicago, she's thrilled to finally share a zip code with her boyfriend. But shortly after getting married, she realizes that her new life is missing one thing: friends. Sure, she has plenty of BFFs - in New York and San Francisco and Boston and Washington, D.C. Still, in her adopted hometown, there's no one to call at the last minute for girl talk over brunch or a reality-TV marathon over a bottle of wine. Taking matters into her own hands, Bertsche develops a plan: Meeting people everywhere from improv class to friend rental websites, she'll go on fifty-two friend-dates, one per week for a year, in hopes of meeting her new Best Friend Forever.

One of the most inspirational books I've read since Gretchen Rubin's "The Happiness Project". I didn't really have any idea what to expect when I started reading it, but I ended up LOVING it, and finished it in just two days.

Rachel Bertsche sounds like an awesome person, and one I'd enjoy getting together with IRL, so I really enjoyed reading about her search for friends, feeling like I could live vicariously through her.

At the end of the book, Rachel Bertsche has a section on "Recommended Reading", and while I'll definitely have to check out some of her recommendations (it would seem like our taste in books mesh quite well - and she recommended The Baby-Sitter's Club!!! That's friend-material right there! ;) ), what I loved most was her section on "Books whose authors I'd like to have as friends" (from memory). What a cute idea :) One of the authors listed was Gretchen Rubin, who'd definitely also be on my list.

And after reading this book, I think I would have to add Rachel Bertsche herself to that list as well.

Lovely, happy-making book :)
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2013-10-25 01:59 pm

Lioness Arising - Lisa Bevere

Title: Lioness Arising
Author: Lisa Bevere
Genre: Christian non-fiction
Rating: 3/5
# pages: Audiobook
Date read: October, 2013

Awaken. The lioness rises from her slumber, a magnificent image of strength, passion, and beauty. Her mere presence commands the landscape, protects her young, and empowers the lion. In groups, lionesses become a creative and strategic force to be reckoned with, acting as one to change the world around them. You too are a lioness. In Lioness Arising, author and speaker Lisa Bevere offers the life and image of the lioness as a fierce and tender model for women. Revealing the surprising characteristics of this amazing creature, Lisa challenges women to discover fresh passion, prowess, and purpose. Learn what it means to be a stunning representation of strength, fiercely protect the young, lend your voice to the silenced, live in the light and hunt in the dark, and raise a collective roar that changes everything.

Lisa Bevere is a wonderfully, God-inspired speaker, whom I'm very happy to have heard "live" on several occasions.

Unfortunately her inspiration doesn't translate all that well to pen and paper, so while I liked "Lioness Arising" well enough, I wasn't as touched by it as I had hoped to be. Originally I thought her message just didn't work as well in the written word, so I got hold of an audio version of her book, read by Lisa Bevere herself, but it still didn't have the passion or the energy as her speaking has when you experience her on stage.

Even so, Lisa made a lot of good points in her book, so at the end of the day, I still liked it well enough to give it 3 stars.
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2012-08-22 03:44 pm

The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake - Aimee Bender

Title: The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake
Author: Aimee Bender
Genre: Fiction
Rating: 3.5/5
# pages: 294
Date read: August, 2012

On the eve of her ninth birthday, unassuming Rose Edelstein, a girl at the periphery of schoolyard games and her distracted parents' attention, bites into her mother's homemade lemon-chocolate cake and discovers she has a magical gift: she can taste her mother's emotions in the cake. She discovers this gift to her horror, for her mother - her cheerful, good-with-crafts, can-do mother - tastes of despair and desperation. Suddenly, and for the rest of her life, food becomes a peril and a threat to Rose. The curse her gift has bestowed is the secret knowledge all families keep hidden - her mother's life outside the home, her father's detachment, her brother's clash with the world. Yet as Rose grows up she learns to harness her gift and becomes aware that there are secrets even her taste buds cannot discern.

I hardly know what to make of this book. There isn't much plot and certainly not many resolutions. It's even heartbreakingly depressing at times. I don't think I'm likely to ever reread it... yet I'd still claim to have liked it. It's fascinating and I loved the writing style, even though I think it would also be its weakest point in the eyes of other readers, because it is a bit of an acquired taste - no pun intended.

I liked Rose and I liked George. I did not like the rest of Rose's family much, although her father did grow on me even if I did think he was a coward. I think my biggest problem with the book was the lack of a proper ending, although truth be told, I'm not sure I can see how it could end.
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2011-08-31 08:20 am

Waterfall - Lisa Bergren

Title: Waterfall
Author: Lisa T. Bergren
Genre: Historical fiction
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 384
Date read: August, 2011

Most American teenagers want a vacation in Italy, but the Bentarrini sisters have spent every summer of their lives with their parents, famed Etruscan scholars, among the romantic hills. Stuck among the rubble of medieval castles in rural Tuscany on yet another hot, dusty archeological site, Gabi and Lia are bored out of their minds... until Gabi places her hand atop a handprint in an ancient tomb and finds herself in fourteenth-century Italy. And worse yet, in the middle of a fierce battle between knights of two opposing forces.

And thus does she come to be rescued by the knight-prince Marcello Falassi, who takes her back to his father's castle - a castle Gabi has seen in ruins in another life. Suddenly Gabi's summer in Italy is much, much more interesting. But what do you do when your knight in shining armor lives, literally, in a different world?

I'll admit it - my main reason for reading this was that I could get it as a free Kindle book from Amazon. But YA, time-travel and historical fiction sounded like a good mix, so I was eager enough to read it. Not all that eager to finish it though. It's one of those books that you enjoy while reading, but that doesn't leave too much of an impression on you afterwards. I did think Gabi had just a hint of being a Mary Sue at times which meant that the entire book read a bit like wish-fulfilment, and the level of writing didn't exactly dispell that notion.

It was enjoyable enough though, so I think I'd still like to read the next book in the series. Especially as I am actually a tad curious as to what happens next. It had shades of Outlander in its love story, which could be a good thing, depending on where Lisa Bergren takes it from here.
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2010-09-16 11:46 am

How to Respond When You Feel Mistreated - John Bevere

Title: How to Respond When You Feel Mistreated
Author: John Bevere
Genre: Christian non-fiction
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 76
Date read: September 2010

"Repay no one evil for evil" (Romans 12:17 NKJV). Easier said than done, right? But that's exactly what John Bevere recommends. We are all subject to some authority, and those in leadership often misuse their power and hurt others. But we as Christians are called to honor and submit to authority, even if it means accepting unfair treatment.

"'Vengeance is mine, I will repay,' says the Lord" (Romans 12:19 NKJV). God's justice often takes longer than we want to wait, but it does come. And our obedience in accepting suffering increases His work in the lives of others. Ultimately, our model for responding to unfair treatment is Jesus. And by enduring suffering as He did, we are made more like Him.

MUCH easier said than done, and I also felt the book lacked some concrete examples. When are we taking vengeance out of God's hands and when are we just refusing to be door-mats? Where does the line go? In some cases it's obvious, but in others not so much.

A thought-provoking book, but though short, it still didn't escape from being rather repetative at times. The first two chapters were definitely the best, and more or less everything in the rest of the book were expansions and elaborations of the topics raised there. I did appricate his chapter on authority though - even when we sorely dislike, or even disapprove of our head of state, God is still in charge. Who are we to say He didn't put that person in that position for a reason? He also made an excellent argument for why a wife submitting to her husband doesn't necessarily mean that she has to obey him, but merely that she has to respect him. Interesting thoughts.
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2010-06-12 11:24 pm

The Gift of Fear - Gavin de Becker

Title: The Gift of Fear
Author: Gavin de Becker
Genre: Non-fiction
Rating: 4/5
# pages: 300
Date read: June, 2010

Victims of violent behavior usually feel a sense of fear before any threat or violence takes place. They may distrust the fear, or it may impel them to some action that saves their lives. A leading expert on predicting violent behavior, de Becker believes we can all learn to recognize these signals of the "universal code of violence," and use them as tools to help us survive. The book teaches how to identify the warning signals of a potential attacker and recommends strategies for dealing with the problem before it becomes life threatening. The case studies are gripping and suspenseful, and include tactics for dealing with similar situations.

Very engagingly written. I found the subject interesting, and the language easy to read (meaning that it wasn't as dry and technical as it could have been). Hopefully I'll never have to put any of this theory into practise, and Becker himself said that the book was more relevant for people in the US than anywhere else.

What I found especially fascinating about the book was the view it gave the reader into the psyche of violent people - how there are always warning signs, how a person never "just snaps" and how to trust ones instincts. For that reason alone, I found the first half of the book most interesting, and it more thoroughly focused on what to look for. The last chapters was more made up of examples met by Becker's firm than case studies the average Jane could learn from.

I guess you could accuse the book of fearmongering, and I probably wouldn't recommend it to somebody already suffering from an anxiety disorder, but Becker does make a case for not worrying unnecessarily, and I guess that's what it all boils down to.

A very quick read, which I found difficult to put down.
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2010-02-02 01:40 pm

Be Angry But Don't Blow It - Lisa Bevere

Title: Be Angry But Don't Blow It
Author: Lisa Bevere
Genre: Christian non-fiction
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 192
Date read: February 2010

Are you tired of anger destroying your life, health, and relationships? Or perhaps you're upset and have held it in for far too long. Guess what-you're not alone! A lot of women are angry, and they're blowing it! They vent it on the very ones they love the most and desperately want to stop but they don't know how.

This book interweaves powerful scriptural truths with practical, personal examples and prayer. Readers will learn to channel passionate emotions constructively. Anger is not wrong, it is how we express it and how far we take it that determines the outcome. For those really ready to be honest and get free, this book will light the way.

Difficult book to review because it was A) very different from what I had expected, and thus B) not very relevant to me, yet C) very well written.

I had assumed that it was a book on all aspects of being angry, meant both for those who got too angry and for those who didn't get angry enough. It turned out it was only aimed at the former, and as keeping my temper isn't really a problem to me, there wasn't much in the book I could use.

Lisa Bevere has an interesting and captivating way of writing though, and there were some chapters that were spot on - not keeping a grudge for instance, and giving an honest apology if you were in the wrong - so at the end of the day, I'm glad I read it, even if I didn't get as much out of it as I'd originally hoped.
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2009-06-30 06:54 pm

The Last Unicorn - Peter S. Beagle

Title: The Last Unicorn
Author: Peter S. Beagle
Genre: Fantasy
Rating: 3/5
# pages: 165
Date read: June, 2009

The unicorn lived in a lilac wood, and she lived all alone. She was very old, though she did not know it, and she was no longer the careless color of sea foam but rather the color of snow falling on a moonlit night. But her eyes were still clear and unwearied, and she still moved like a shadow on the sea.

The unicorn discovers that she is the last unicorn in the world, and sets off to find the others. She meets Schmendrick the Magician--whose magic seldom works, and never as he intended--when he rescues her from Mommy Fortuna's Midnight Carnival, where only some of the mythical beasts displayed are illusions. They are joined by Molly Grue, who believes in legends despite her experiences with a Robin Hood wannabe and his unmerry men. Ahead wait King Haggard and his Red Bull, who banished unicorns from the land.

I just about dropped the book when I came to page 15 and read, "Your name is a golden bell, hung in my heart. I would break my body to pieces to call you once by your name". A good friend from New Zealand used to quote this to me all the time, and I never knew where she had it from. For that reason alone, I was inclined to love this book. Vanessa Jans, here's to you, wherever you are!

Unfortunately, the rest of the book didn't really live up to my expectations. The writing was stilted, the sentences didn't always make sense and I hadn't come far before I realised that I actually didn't really care what happened to the unicorn! Not conductive to enjoying a book.

However, it's a short book, so I pushed through, and I was gratified to see that the ending wasn't as "happily ever after" as I'd feared along the way. The ending and the nostalgic touch of the quote brings the book up to 3 stars, where the writing, plot and characters would have left it at 2.

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